We are in dire times, and I cannot stress this enough: get your house in order. The family unit is the foundation of society—culturally, financially, and systemically. What happens in your household shapes the people who will influence the world. Whether you’re a family of one or six, the most impactful thing you can do is to bring order to your household.
Here’s how you can start.
Establish a Spiritual Foundation
The Bible teaches that a house built on a firm foundation will withstand life’s storms: “Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock” (Matthew 7:24). To get your house in order, start with the ultimate foundation: your relationship with the Lord.
Read your Bible daily. Scripture provides the guidance needed to navigate life’s challenges. It is “a lamp to my feet and a light to my path” (Psalm 119:105), offering clarity and direction. Let the Word of God shape your household’s values and decisions.
Make time for prayer and worship. Invite the Lord to govern your home and your heart. As Joshua declared, “But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15). When you prioritize spiritual growth, you create a moral compass for yourself and those in your care, preventing confusion and aligning your actions with God’s will.
Understand Your Financial Situation
You should know your finances down to the penny. Here are some things you should start doing immediately:
- Avoid overworking: Many people exhaust themselves chasing unnecessary desires or living beyond their means.
- Plan wisely: Budget for essentials, set goals, and prepare for emergencies.
- Stay ahead: Know if you can afford a gift, a vacation, or even dinner with a friend.
By mastering your cash flow, you’ll avoid unnecessary stress and ensure you’re a good steward of your resources.
Plan for Loss
Many families are typically caught off guard when a loved one passes away. Celebrating the life of you or your loved ones should no feel like a burden. Here are a few things your could do to alleviate the acceptance of new yet difficult reality:
- Insurance: Purchase a life insurance policy that can at minimum pay off funeral arrangements and all household debt including but not limited to mortgages, vehicles, loans, and credit cards. Ideally, the policy should pay off debt and funeral and leave a nest egg for your surviving household members.
- Trusts: Establish a family trust and make it the beneficiary of your assets. When set up correctly, families typically avoid messy probate courts.
Structure Your Household
A well-run household has clear rules and systems that everyone follows. Here are key aspects to consider:
- Inventory management: Know what you have and need, from food to cleaning supplies.
- Nutrition: Plan meals based on your family’s dietary needs. Choose foods that support health rather than indulgence.
- Clothing: Buy clothing for functionality and occasion. Avoid overspending on outfits that don’t serve a purpose.
- Cleaning: Know who is responsible for cleaning what, when, and, in some cases, how.
- Daily routines: Set rules like brushing teeth before breakfast or taking shoes off at the door. These small habits establish discipline and cleanliness.
- Maintenance: Make a list of every item in your household that needs regular maintenance. List out what, when, and, in some cases, how to maintain each item. Don’t forget to include your motor vehicles.
Monitor Worldly Exposure
Parents, be intentional about your children’s education and influences:
- What are they consuming? Know the shows, music, games, and apps they interact with.
- Who are they engaging with? Be aware of their friends and any strangers they encounter online or in person.
- What are they learning? Teach them your values and correct misinformation. Privacy for children should have boundaries rooted in safety and guidance.
This isn’t about control—it’s about protecting and nurturing them as they grow.
Adults are not exempt. It is time for adults to start questioning the crap that they expose themselves to. Instagram recently released functionality that allows users to reset their algorithm. If that sounds like overkill to you then be sure to take some time to prune the content from those you follow and from what is suggested to you. You have to become sensitive to worldly influences that encourage poor character, health, and finances. Those types of influences are not of God.
Build Family Connection
Family time is non-negotiable. Eating meals together, praying, and having regular conversations build emotional bonds and foster a sense of belonging. Here’s what you should incorporate:
- Emotional check-ins: Understand your family’s interests, struggles, and ambitions.
- Support systems: Be involved in their activities, whether it’s school, work, sports, or hobbies.
- Household flow: Set a rhythm that makes everyone feel supported and engaged.
Set Non-Negotiables
Define clear boundaries for your household. Whether it’s about finances, routines, or relationships, everyone should know and respect these non-negotiables. Having these rules creates stability and identity for your home.
Lead with Intentionality
Running a household is a demanding role, but it’s also a privilege. When you relinquish control over areas you can manage, you allow chaos—or worse, external forces—to dictate your life. Leadership in the home means taking responsibility for its structure and direction, even when it feels overwhelming.
The Time Is Now
Getting your house in order isn’t just about organization—it’s about purpose. It’s about creating a space where you and your loved ones can grow, thrive, and align with values that will positively influence the world.
These steps are non-negotiables. Begin today. A structured, intentional home is a blessing not just for its members but for society at large.
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